PERSONAL REMINDERS • PRIVATE OPT-IN NUDGES & MONTHLY RECAPS

Private activity reminders, chosen by each member

Give members full voluntary control over their own Discord activity updates. Enable quiet private nudges before warning thresholds or receive monthly recaps with active day breakdowns without impacting server settings.

Member-Controlled Opt-In
Optional Heads-Up Before Warnings
Monthly Active Day & Decay Score Summaries
Zero Server-Wide Auto-Subscriptions
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Private Activity Nudges

Choose the private CLNR nudges you want for this server. They are here to help you stay aware, not to pressure you.

Quiet activity nudge: On

Monthly recap: On

Private to you, server-local, and never based on message content.

Shown ON states are example settings, not defaults. Only admins can change the Server permission.

Tailored Reminder Options

Two Independent Private Reminder Choices

Members independently choose quiet activity nudges and monthly recaps for this server.

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Quiet Activity Nudges

Can provide an earlier private heads-up before the server’s first inactivity warning level. Helps active members catch unintentional quiet periods early without public mentions.

Nudge Characteristics:

• Delivered discreetly via direct message

• Managed per server via /notifications

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Monthly Activity Recaps

A warmer private monthly summary of active days, tracked streaks, and inactivity status.

Recap Contents:

• Active day counts from configured signals

• Streak duration and Decay Score summary

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Strict Member Opt-In

Personal reminders are strictly opt-in per member. Server administrators can permit member enrollment, but admins can never force-subscribe server members.

Opt-In Protection:

• Off by default for all members

• Toggled individually via /notifications

Activity Insights

Active Days, Streaks, and Lower-Is-Better Decay Scores

Monthly recaps summarize participation metrics clearly and transparently. Recaps count active days from configured activity signals separately from continuous streak tracking, giving members an accurate picture of their presence.

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Active Days Counting

Total distinct calendar days in which configured activity signals were recorded.

Signal-Based
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Continuous Active Streaks

Shows the server’s tracked activity streak separately from the recap’s active-day count.

Streak Tracking
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Lower-Is-Better Decay Score

Shows inactivity risk. Lower is better; this is separate from active-day counts and tracked streaks.

Lower = Better

Status Inspection via /my_score

Quick personal access to scores and notification toggles

Member Tool

Members can run /my_score at any time to inspect their current standing, view Decay Score details, and quickly jump to personal reminder settings.

🔗 Quick Links

/my_score embed contains a direct button link to manage preferences in /notifications.

🔒 Private Results

Score checks in server channels are visible only to the person using the command.

⚙️ Signal Consistency

Recaps evaluate the same active signals configured by server admins without reading messages.

👻 Ghost Mode Handling

The server permission starts off in Ghost presets. Each member’s reminder preferences also start off.

Personal reminder preferences apply strictly per server. Enrolling in one server does not impact preferences in other communities.
Admin Control & Safe Boundaries

Server Permissions & Clear System Separation

Understand how server-wide permissions govern member opt-ins and how personal reminders remain completely distinct from server threshold warnings.

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Server Permission

Server-Wide Admin Permission

Admins inspect feature permission state using /config show. Turning off personal reminders server-wide immediately pauses all member nudges and recaps across the server.

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No Auto-Subscribe

Never Subscribes Everyone

Enabling server permission grants members the ability to opt in, but never auto-subscribes members. Every member must explicitly choose to enable reminders in /notifications.

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Mute Distinction

Separate Threshold Warnings

Commands like /mute and /unmute manage admin-configured inactivity warning DMs. Unmuting warning DMs does not enroll a member in personal opt-in reminders.

⚠️ Delivery Protection & Recovery

Automatic Blocked-DM State Detection & Pausing

Delivery Safeguard

What Happens When Discord Blocks a DM?

If a personal nudge or monthly recap cannot be delivered due to member privacy settings or blocked direct messages, CLNR captures the failed delivery state cleanly.

  • Shows a blocked-delivery explanation on the member's /notifications card.
  • Stops future personal reminder DMs until the member enables them again.
  • Changing Discord privacy settings alone does not re-enable personal reminders.

How Members Restore Delivery

After allowing DMs, members can enable reminders again if the server-wide permission allows opt-ins.

  • Enable Allow Direct Messages in Discord Server Privacy Settings.
  • Run /notifications in the server to inspect delivery status.
  • Enable the reminders again through /notifications after allowing DMs.
Slash Commands

Command Reference & Control Center

Click any command chip below to copy it directly to your clipboard for Discord.

All Members

Manage Personal Reminders

Open interactive preferences to toggle Quiet activity nudges and Monthly Recaps for the current server.

All Members

View Standings & Decay Score

Display private activity standing, Decay Score, and direct button link to personal notification settings.

All Members

Mute Threshold Warnings

Mute your inactivity-reminder DMs for this server. This is separate from enrolling in personal opt-in reminders.

All Members

Resume Threshold Warnings

Resume your inactivity-reminder DMs for this server without enrolling in personal opt-in reminders.

Admin Only

Inspect Server Configuration

Inspect server settings to verify whether member opt-in personal reminders are permitted.

Empower members with private, opt-in activity reminders.

Give server members quiet heads-up nudges and monthly active day breakdowns under complete individual member control.

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